Folino had been in Newtown off and on since Dec. 15 and stayed overnight to help out at the Dec. 19 funeral of Charlotte Bacon, 6, who died in the killing spree visited upon Newtown. The final tally: 28 dead, including the shooter, Adam Lanza, and his mother, Nancy, who was the first victim, gunned down in her home.
Folino had been helping provide extra hands at Honan Funeral Home, the only such business in Newtown, as well as at other sites around northwestern Connecticut. As of Dec. 19, 160 funeral directors statewide had volunteered, and they were arriving in shifts of 20 per day, Folino said.
Honan alone was dealing with 11 funerals, all of them children.
Charlotte Bacon, a redhead who reportedly loved animals and was learning tae kwon do, was laid to rest at Newtown Village Cemetery after services at Christ the King Lutheran Church in Newtown. Other funerals were held the same day for elementary school students Daniel Barden and Caroline Previdi, teacher Victoria Soto – who reportedly saved several lives by hiding her students in a classroom closet – and Dawn Hochsprung, the Sandy Hook principal who confronted the gunman in a futile attempt to stop the massacre.
“It's a very, very hellacious week for everyone involved,” Folino said.
Among the free services Folino has been able to provide, with support of the 220-member Connecticut Funeral Directors Association, were transportation of the deceased, funeral preparation services and assistance with the funerals themselves, including directing traffic.
Among the items and services being donated, he said, are caskets, vaults and hearses.
Folino said he personally helped prepare one of the victims for funeral services and transferred one child from the medical examiner's office to a funeral home.
Folino also has been in the limelight during a media onslaught that saw television trucks scattered throughout Newtown over the past few days, representing major networks from the United States and overseas. He has been interviews for, among others, National Public Radio's “All Things Considered” and CNN's “The Situation Room” with Wolf Blitzer.
The media, he said, has been “very respectful” and “sympathetic to the situation and to the victims.”
Folino said he has been in direct contact with only one family, but his impression has been that the survivors are making sure the funerals are a celebration of life. Many caskets are being closed with teddy bears, dolls and pictures included inside, he said.
“They're trying to express how their child was in life.”